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The Power of a Simple Act: Holding the Door Open :BCT Series II

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In this installment of the Boot Camp Transformation (BCT) Series, I'm excited to share an experience that has made me reevaluate some of my own behaviors and attitudes. It all started with a seemingly mundane act – holding the door open for a stranger, a choice I had never made before. But what prompted this unexpected shift in my actions, and what did it teach me about the impact of small gestures on our lives?



Breaking My Comfort Zone

Let me preface this by saying that I've never been one to engage in what some might call "chivalrous" acts, such as holding doors open for others. It's not that I was consciously against it; it just wasn't something I typically did.

However, as I continued my journey in the United Kingdom, I began to notice something peculiar – strangers were often holding doors open for me. At first, I didn't think much of it, but as it continued to happen, I realized that it made me feel genuinely cared for and appreciated. It was a simple act, but it left a profound impact on my day.

The Ripple Effect of Kindness

As time went on, this experience got me thinking. Did moving away from my comfort zone, venturing into a new country, and embracing a different way of life make me more aware of the small acts of kindness around me? Did it enhance my appreciation for these seemingly insignificant gestures?

The day I decided to hold the door open for a stranger, I couldn't help but reflect on how much the simple kindness of others had meant to me. It had made me feel seen and valued in a foreign land. And so, I found myself compelled to reciprocate.

Mindfulness in Action

This wasn't the first time someone had held the door open for me , this happened many times back home. However, on this particular occasion, I became acutely aware of the body language, the mindfulness in that moment, and the sense of connection it fostered. It was as if the collective mindfulness of those who had extended this courtesy to me had left an indelible mark on my own actions.

I realized that I was most likely engaging in this act of kindness when I was mindful, fully present in the moment. Of course, there were times when I missed the opportunity, but the intention was there.

It's a reminder that the ripple effect of kindness knows no boundaries and can transcend cultural differences.

As I continue to explore the transformative journey of the BCT Series, I eagerly anticipate more opportunities to learn and grow, one small act of kindness at a time. And who knows, maybe the next time I hold a door open for a stranger, they'll be inspired to do the same for someone else.

So far so much

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