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Planning patient care over a Cup of Coffee :BCT Series I

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 In this first article of the BCT Series, I share a heartwarming incident that took place in a clinical setting, reminding me of the power of empathy and human connection.



A Caffeine-Free Decision

Let me preface this by mentioning a somewhat peculiar fact about myself – I avoid caffeine in any form for the past eight years. So, you can imagine my surprise when I decided to brew a cup of coffee for not one, but two patients in the hospital today .Lets share one.

It wasn't an impulsive decision. Instead, it was a response to the circumstances that unfolded before me. The lady I made the coffee for had been suffering from a chronic health condition for decades. She was alone, with no family by her side, and visibly upset by the slow pace of the healthcare system.

An Unexpected Gesture

I'm not entirely sure why I decided to make coffee that day. I do not know how to make one! I thought of doing it in the hospital while on shift for someone else ( Strange!) It wasn't my job. However, as I stood in front of the coffee maker, I realized that sometimes, a simple gesture of kindness can make all the difference.

When I handed her the coffee cup, she had tears in her eyes. "Nobody has been as kind as you lately," she said, her voice trembling with emotion. I watched as a small act of brewing coffee transformed her day.

The Power of Connection

It's incredible how a single cup of coffee can become a symbol of human connection. In the UK, I've noticed that people are often generous with compliments and expressions of gratitude. In this instance, the lady described the coffee as "delicious," but what truly mattered was the kindness and empathy behind it.

In a clinical setting where medical treatments and protocols are the primary focus, this experience taught me that sometimes, it's the moments of genuine connection that have the most significant impact on a person's well-being.

 It started with a cup of coffee, a simple choice to extend a hand of kindness to someone in need. 

In the chapters that follow, I look forward to sharing more stories, insights, and reflections from my journey in the University of Life.

So far so much

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